Let’s Be Real, when your child with ADHD is having a meltdown, it can feel like a tornado just tore through your house, complete with howling, flying toys, and lots of chaos. Been there? You’re not alone. Here are ten calming techniques you can use to bring things back from "DEFCON 1" to peaceful-ish parenting. 1. Get Low And Breathe Slow Kneel to your child with ADHD eye level and model deep, exaggerated breaths. Don’t worry if it feels silly, deep breathing is contagious ( in a good way ). 2. Use A Calming Phrase Try telling your child with ADHD the following phrase: “ You’re safe. I’m here. We’ll figure this out .” Say it like you’re narrating a bedtime story, even if you’re holding back a scream. 3. Offer a Pressure Hug or Blanket Wrap Firm hugs may calm your child's nervous system. If you are not a hugger, try having your child with ADHD wrap up like a cozy burrito in their favorite blanket. 4. Break Out A Calm-Down Kit Create a mini toolkit with fidget toys, s...